Freezing up with a broad

[Alleywishez]

I just don't get it... I know what my problem is, I know what I need to do and say but I just can't do it for some reason. This girl I work with (kinda) I'm really feelin or what not and I know she is feelin the kid too... Everytime she comes around I'll just say some of the wackest stuff or what not, well maybe not wack stuff but I'll talk about evertything but me and her you know. What rteally pisses me off is that I've had hella opportunities to ask her whats up but I just bitch up... My homeboy said it's because I'm used to going after chicks and not used to a chick going after me. But I think that's bullshit... I dont know y'all just what going on with me right now....

Behold a lady... the black one..
http://photos-b.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v47/53/14/1518540080/n1518540080_30005673_3983.jpg

[CdotVdot]

its cause u give a shit this time around. psychologically u know u will be crushed upon rejection. you fear it. Your Heart Is Really just wanting to make this a 'trial' cuz u like her. she's not 'the one' because u wouldnt be even trippin about ur lack of indepth talk. u would have a quiet confidence th at everything would be straight.

[carameloleo]

ay on the real B...

U should say exactly what you just said man....to her....

Foreal...

Be like....

"okay...you know what...ima just be 100 percent real with you...Im diggin u... and I KNOW ya diggin me too!"

Laugh about it man....its wuteva! Try and relax!

And then just say what you said here... be like "There have been so many times I tried talkin to you about other stuff, than just...'whateva' stuff, kuz im diggin u heavy, and I keep slippin on my words...u kno wut I mean...."

And keep goin....


and goin.....


You can do that shit man...I PROMISE...

Put them Nikes on and DO IT B!

=Good Luck

[Alleywishez]

Today me and her were up on top of the bridge just looking at the water and enjoying the feel of sun on our faces and the view of the ocean and I could not think of one thing to say at all.... I mean the convo was going pretty good, and then I was like after we leave what are you doing? And she was like just my laundry and bringing somebody food back. So I was like how about you call me when you finish that and we can hang out or whatever? So I give her my number and she said we can do that... So I run into her as she is leaving and she says call me and I tel her "you've got my number, call me!"

[Alleywishez]

So boom I finish my laundry and shit and check my phone out and see no damn calls... so I just charge it up to the game and went about my buisiness...
So the next day me and the chick are in a situation were we are together for like three hours and I was kinda worried about it being wierd or whatever so when I see chick I'm not gonna even sweat her about not callin or whatever you know? So she comes up here and the first words out of her mouth were I called you and she described my voicemail and ringback tone. So I was like damn that sucks. So she asks me to see my

[Alleywishez]

Sidekick and is like next time you call me.

[CdotVdot]

there's a chance one day you'll be inserting your penis in her vagina..

[numbaonelova]

yo to tell you the truth you are already in there but you should go further before you become in the just a friend section trust me you dont wanna go there it hurts like hell just keep your head up let me know whats up

[Alleywishez]

I already know that friend zone is nothin nice... But I tell you these niggas on the boat are like.... ok remember that scene in Jurassic Park where they lowered that cow into the raptor cage... that's how niggas pounce on these hoes... and a bitch who might be like a 6 or 7, they elevate and pump her head up till she sees herself as official dime status...that's not really about nothin though, but what's really fucked me up is that my ship is goin out to sea or whatever and I can't even chil with her like I wanna. And another thing its crazy how a age difference of 3 years can be such a big deal.. I mean she talks about chappelle show like its new and shit but I used to get high watchin that show!

[ak89]

I know I'm mad late as this is my first time coming in this part of the board but...

It seems like you known this chick for a min and been spending some time with her. So the question is why you ain't escalate yet?

Why you ain't go for the kiss, like one dude already said your worrying about it too much so that is fucking you up. Just go for it. Escalate that shit. You said you was chilling for 3 hours at one point and you ain't make no moves.

The dude who goes in the friend zone is the ones who don't escalate. You're probably already done, but you never know so your best bet is to go for it.

Stop being a puss, grab your nuts and show her the Penis power. You're a man so lead that shit escalate, kiss, whatever. You don't got to fuck her right there but you gotta start escalating.

[silent_scope]

yo...

she go to the naval academy?

[Alleywishez]

Nah she is enlisted... that picture was taken at her A school....

[plineking]

very good

[151]

ask her out on a date.. and get it over with.. if she declines.. then move on.. dont stalk her

[Bo$$ology]

there's a chance one day you'll be inserting your penis in her vagina..

:24: Naw man you need to relax and take a deep breath and realize that you are putting way too much stock in this one broad man, you are all goo- goo over this one female. Just calm down relax and put your bid in and see what happens. Also playa you should also be out there campaigning for other females, that way you aren't putting all your eggs in one basket sort to speak, plus you won't be thinking about this female 24/7 Ya dig?

[Bo$$ology]

ask her out on a date.. and get it over with.. if she declines.. then move on.. dont stalk her Now that's what's up!!!!