View Full Version : wat do you do to get over a breakup???
sosadagr8
01-26-2006, 06:45 PM
A long term one at that..wat do you do to get over it and feel better??
any songs u listen to?
people you hang wit??
things u look at?
anything u think about??
_Delicacy
02-02-2006, 06:27 PM
The only real way to actually get over someone is to find someone better.
sosadagr8
02-02-2006, 08:09 PM
^^^YEAH, IM IN THAT PROCESS NOW.
ChromeDome
02-03-2006, 04:33 AM
time heals all wounds
until then, distraction works best.
silent_scope
02-03-2006, 03:35 PM
what they said...
find and fuck 10 random chicks..
or more.
ALion_In_The_Winter
02-07-2006, 10:49 PM
Take your time to focus on rebuilding yourself, don't be fooled into thinking that fucking a bunch of women will help, You'll only end up treating those women bad. It's a slow process learn to deal with yourself emotionally ,be real about how you feel(the rhyme was unintentional).
sosadagr8
02-07-2006, 11:05 PM
THNX YALL
RogueMage
02-08-2006, 12:20 AM
I'm not sure my advice will be any help--I really believe men and women are wired a bit differently emotionally.
Anyway to offer my personal $1.50...I'd say the first thing is to STAY BUSY. If you're busy, that's less time to wallow in misery... If it was a good relationship overall, you probably wouldn't want to destroy mementoes, but I'd suggest putting them away---preferably where you won't be tempted to take them out or inadvertently come across them.
Meet some new folks, re-contact some old friends...go do something fun. On your worst days, make it a point to do something productive or something nice for someone else, esp young kids that may look up to you.
Are you creative? If you are a particularly creative or sensitive individual, a breakup can be truly devistating---channel that into whatever your art medium is...use it as a muse---and use your creativity as a catharsis. It doesn't necessarily have to be something you'd eventually share with others, though something brilliant may come of it. The point is...use your creativity to process the emotional residue out of your system.
And if you're religious or spiritual, prayer and meditation never hurts...
Brightest Blessings and Namasté,
RM
sosadagr8
02-08-2006, 12:44 AM
^^^^u are a goddesss. thanks alot.
RogueMage
02-08-2006, 12:49 AM
:6: :5:
garcia vega
02-08-2006, 06:43 AM
The only real way to actually get over someone is to find someone better.
Educated Fool
02-12-2006, 12:59 PM
My fiance broke up with me 3 months before we were supposed to get married. I was in the military stationed in Hawaii and 1,000's of miles away from family and friends. Time, laughter, and introspection worked for me. Hope this helps for you.
Suddenly Single - Coping with Relationship Loss
From Dianne Hadaway
The 5 Stages of Grief - Understanding the Process of Coping With Loss
Any major life change creates a certain amount of stress no matter how prepared one may be. Even if you are the one who created the change, you will experience stress during the adaptation period of the change wrought in your life.
Understanding and accepting that you will experience certain common stages of grief when you suffer a personal loss, can pave the way for coping, adjusting, and recovering from you loss in a constructive way.
The loss of a partner through death, breakup, or divorce creates certain common responses in a person. However, each person mourns a loss differently and for differing amounts of time.
There are 5 common stages of grief that characterize the mourning of the loss of a relationship. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross M.D. developed the five-stage grief model that we use today.
The stages are not necessarily experienced in a particular order. You can go through some of the stages more than once, sometimes numerous times. Certain events can trigger a stage of grief, for example, sorting through your former partner's belongings, running into a mutual friend, or learning that your ex-partner is involved in a new relationship might cause you to have feelings you may have previously moved past.
The Five Stages of Grief Are:
1. The Denial Stage (This isn't happening to me!)
This is the time when you cannot accept the loss or change in your life. Disbelief and denial cause you to think "This is not happening to me!" If your partner has died you find yourself waiting to hear from him or catch yourself picking up the telephone to call him. If your partner has left, you may believe you can repair the relationship and seek to change her mind.
2. The Anger/Resentment Stage.(Why is this happening to me?)
You may feel angry from the beginning or your anger may not arise until you have experienced some other emotions like confusion, shock, sadness, yearning, guilt, humiliation and despair. Anger and resentment are powerful emotions that can be aimed at the circumstances, your partner, and even others who may or may not have a role in your situation. Your anger may be masked or misdirected unless you acknowledge it.
3. The Bargaining Stage (I promise I'll be a better person if...)
This stage often branches out from the denial stage. You find yourself making deals to restore your relationship or change the situation. With the death of a spouse you many bargain with God for a time. In a broken relationship you may try to negotiate a reunion or make promises in order to repair the relationship.
4. The Depression Stage. (I don't care anymore)
Once you accept the situation and that it isn’t going to change, that aknowledgement can lead to depression. Feeling down, sad and hurt are absolutely normal emotions when you've suffered a personal loss. This kind of depression is normal, and not alarming. However, if you have feelings of unrelenting lethargy, suicidal thoughts, or are unable to function reasonably you should seek medical attention and follow doctor's orders for treatment of your depression.
5. The Acceptance Stage (I'm ready for whatever comes next.)
You are beginning to heal and have positive feelings about your ability to move forward. You find peace and the ability to enjoy yourself or others without guilt or remorse. You realize you may have setbacks and feel pain from time to time, but you are surviving and regaining your sense of self.
When you are going through an emotionally stressful time there are some very important things you should remember as you move through this phase of your life:
· Know that while the pain you feel is real and strong, in time you will adjust and you will find reasons to smile and enjoy your life again.
· Go easy on yourself, allow yourself to feel the real emotions, go through them and accept that it is not only normal, but healthy for you to have them. Allow yourself to grieve and give yourself the time you need to feel better.
· If you should feel trapped or stuck in any emotional state for an extended time, reach out for help so that you can learn better coping skills, receive medical attention, or accept counseling to help you move forward.
· Avoid long term legal decisions when possible.
If you are in an emotional state its better to put off long term legal decisions until your thinking is clearer. However, do not allow yourself to be misguided or taken advantage of when it comes to your children, property, financial stability, and support. Seek legal counsel instead of trying to manage complicated legal matters on your own if you feel the least bit controlled by others.
· Be safe. It’s easy to become distracted when you are going through emotional times. Pay extra attention to your surroundings, use care and caution when you are cooking, smoking, driving, or using electrical appliances.
· Seek support for your yourself. Let friends and family lend a hand, a shoulder, money, resources, and anything else they want to offer to help you along until you are better able to manage. Community services and places of worship offer support groups and counseling.
· Maintain rituals. Instilling a sense of consistency will help you and n feel secure. Family dinners, school and sports activities, and other schedules should be keep intact as much as possible. Continue to celebrate special occasions and holidays, weekly outings, family nights, and the like as closely to the way you always have.
· Treat yourself well. Nurture your spiritual and emotional needs and take care of your physical health. You must do these things for yourself. You will be rewarded with your newfound sense of strength, perserverance, and independence. It can take a while, but you should put a priority on giving yourself the gift of love. Take care of yourself. Remember to eat properly, reward yourself for even minor accomplishments.
sosadagr8
02-13-2006, 08:41 PM
thnx alot educated fool
redman
02-14-2006, 03:43 AM
My thoughts are similar to "ALion_In_The_Winter". First accept the loss. Then you have to learn to love yourself more. In other words love the hell out of you. This self love will help heal the pain of loss. Also, use this time to get to know you.
Jon Doe
02-26-2006, 02:39 PM
you got 2 do it moven stay buissy so that your mind doesn't ponder
AhGoOn
04-14-2006, 07:40 AM
A long term one at that..wat do you do to get over it and feel better??
any songs u listen to?
people you hang wit??
things u look at?
anything u think about??
If you can't get over her, get over someone else (or under, as your preference may be).
Have you completed Stage 1?.....
Sugar in gas tank, slash tires, firebombs on doorstep, mobile number for "Free Sex" on walls of public bathrooms, malicious rumour spreading, doggy style photos posted on the internet, sex moans played on relatives answering machines, cat shaved and spray painted yellow, multiple pizzza and Chinese deliveries at 1am.....it's only after you've gone through this stage that you can truly start to "grieve" :1:
sosadagr8
04-14-2006, 10:30 AM
If you can't get over her, get over someone else (or under, as your preference may be).
Have you completed Stage 1?.....
Sugar in gas tank, slash tires, firebombs on doorstep, mobile number for "Free Sex" on walls of public bathrooms, malicious rumour spreading, doggy style photos posted on the internet, sex moans played on relatives answering machines, cat shaved and spray painted yellow, multiple pizzza and Chinese deliveries at 1am.....it's only after you've gone through this stage that you can truly start to "grieve" :1:
i got over someone else on wednesday so i guess i am passed it. :yay :yay :yay :yay :yay :yay
DaReal
04-15-2006, 12:52 PM
Honestly, you may never completely get over someone (especially if it was a real deep relationship), but after time you will accept what has happened and use the experience to become a stronger person.
Jamaicanbwoydre
04-16-2006, 08:14 PM
i hear ya dareal
sosadagr8
04-16-2006, 08:30 PM
Honestly, you may never completely get over someone (especially if it was a real deep relationship), but after time you will accept what has happened and use the experience to become a stronger person.
word.
Must_B_Nice
04-17-2006, 09:39 PM
save for myself
but anyway songs yo listen too
Alien Ant Farm -Movies
Pharcyde -otha fish
Ghostface -never be the same again
Camp Lo -8 moons ago
slice
04-23-2006, 11:24 AM
All the self assessment is too much IMO. Just because you break up with someone you don't need to assess yourself all of a sudden. You know what you like, so if you feel OK to go after it when you see it I say go get it. It's about the continuity of being you and doing what you want to do, not about examining yourself in the context of a failed relationship. The only reason to heavily analyze that is if you want to get back with that person. Keep it moving.
RrebelRrabbi
04-29-2006, 05:19 PM
FUCK ONE OF HER BESTFRIEND'S FRIENDS THAT SHE WILL HEAR ABOUT, THEN SHE'LL WANT U. WHEN THAT HAPPENS, U WILL REALIZE HOW WACK SHE REALLY IS. THEN FIND A BADDER BITCH.
BLAKnikulis
05-15-2006, 11:28 PM
Time,it just takes time.Even when you got a ass whole as a mate.It'll take time.
X-kalabor
05-20-2006, 05:47 PM
i paint..
write..
and piss people off on this forum..
shit happens..
get over it..
sosadagr8
05-20-2006, 06:20 PM
i paint..
write..
and piss people off on this forum..
shit happens..
get over it..
where have you been......
D.R.E.
06-20-2006, 06:52 AM
just got it cut off w/ mine
guess right now..
I'm just takin it slo.
I say it dont hurt..but it does..cant help it
listen to a lil music..try to keep plans so i can preoccupy myself.
which is gon b kinda hard..I'm broke..nowhere to go..
but...I'll manage.
maybe it'll turn into a song.
D.R.E.
06-20-2006, 10:08 AM
i got over someone else on wednesday so i guess i am passed it. :yay :yay :yay :yay :yay :yay
damn..it took u 3 months?
sosadagr8
06-20-2006, 12:19 PM
damn..it took u 3 months?
over a 2 year relationship, yea roughly 2-3 months. after a couple days i got over it, but i tend to relapse. I aint run to her tryna get back together, nor did I call or shit like that pleading. physically i was over it, mentally, it was tough.
ChromeDome
06-24-2006, 09:30 AM
just broke it off w/ my girl. last night.
its fucked up. cus i really think i loved that bitch. :12:
and alot of my boys got girls and shit. so theyre occupied. doin the shit i was doin w/ my girl.
and like DRE im fuckin broke and dont have shit to do or anywhere to go.
im gona be on some heavy "fuck them bitches" shit.
and it had to be the one i was seriously feeling to flip-flop on me.
but the psycho bitches dont never wana leave lol
D.R.E.
06-24-2006, 12:49 PM
must be the warm weather..
but me and mine reconciled..
we wanna work it out..
which I'm happy for..
cause
"pretend to be heroic "thats just one to grow with" but deep inside a nigga so sick righ'?" - Jay Z
^that was me for about 2 days not gon front..
ChromeDome
06-24-2006, 01:23 PM
Congrats d.r.e hope shit works for you.
I'm still dealing with my shit. Callin up people I haven't seen in months tryna find somethin to occupy my time
BLAKnikulis
08-04-2006, 12:29 AM
Time ,it takes time.
youngmoney
10-19-2006, 07:10 AM
bang 10 bitches
B-sTrO
10-19-2006, 10:47 AM
If its really over and it hurts
Fuck a cousin or a friend
Listen a lot of Too Short or Devin The Dude
Go clubbin and find a rebound bitch
sosadagr8
10-19-2006, 05:55 PM
fuck a cousin??
B-sTrO
10-20-2006, 01:25 AM
fuck a cousin??
her cousin or friend numb nuts
sosadagr8
10-20-2006, 01:29 AM
lol
sosadagr8
10-20-2006, 01:50 AM
Thief From B-sTrO
Thief attempt was successful from B-sTrO.
:D :D :D
Miss_Toni
10-22-2006, 06:55 PM
The only real way to actually get over someone is to find someone better.
Yep
Miss_Toni
10-22-2006, 06:56 PM
I do the whole rebound thing. And then cry afterwards.
B-sTrO
10-22-2006, 08:05 PM
Thief From B-sTrO
Thief attempt was successful from B-sTrO.
:D :D :D
mutha fucka.lol
goldilocs
12-30-2006, 06:28 PM
The only real way to actually get over someone is to find someone better.
fast....you may not forget...but it will ease the pain even if its just allittle
hooktt
12-31-2006, 12:36 AM
Go Find A Bitch And Go FUCK!!!!
sosadagr8
12-31-2006, 02:02 AM
Go Find A Bitch And Go FUCK!!!!
2 times ahead of ya :36: :36: :36: :36: :36: :36: :36:
SenBlack(UVP)
01-04-2007, 01:00 PM
I do the whole rebound thing. And then cry afterwards.How did I miss this
SMH
SenBlack(UVP)
01-04-2007, 01:06 PM
Yall niggas sound like bitches that real I mean move the fuck on.
All the females in this world and yall talking about "OH IT HURTS" so what it's life move on.
Once I break up I won't be doing shit to keep from pondering bout her, I won't even be thinking about her like that.
I will think about her but no to the point where I need to find something to occupy my mind.
possiebot
01-11-2007, 12:30 AM
man up fuck all this therapy shit move the fuck on,go work on your body( hit the local gym)work on the physical parts(anything that can help you look and feel better)start saving money(new clothes,new shoes,nice apartment,clean ride)last but not least let people see you out and about(don't let this break up look like it broke you down)start living again bitch,i had to tell my nephew this same shit the other day.
sosadagr8
01-11-2007, 01:59 AM
y yall niggas so late tho?
faultless
01-13-2007, 04:08 AM
play NWA
yup
a saying I learn from here
"to get over one female you have to get on top of another female"
joneblaze
05-07-2007, 12:30 PM
Start dating other women..QUICKLY !!!!!!!!!
stangbangin24-7
09-10-2007, 02:08 AM
start fucking other women. a lot of them. and don't compare any of them to the girl you just lost. fuck that music shit, and all that. it's depressing. involve yourself with women who are in no way similar to your ex. and do whatever you can to laugh. watch funny movies, go to comedy shows, and smoke a lot of weed. that'll help you laugh. hang out with some women that you don't wanna fuck, just hang with. take them out someplace and flirt with other hoes in front of her. ask her who she think you should holla at and why. have some fun
rampant404
09-10-2007, 02:38 AM
It's never easy man. All you can do is try to remember to forget. You'll be minding your own business, when you'll hear a song or see a place that reminds you of her. It sounds like the most cliche advice ever, but just give it time, and you'll think of her less and less.
Vegeta 06
11-18-2007, 03:37 AM
going through it now. Just keep occupied and keep it moving. Resolve soem shit in your own mind; don't cover it up with quick fixes like new pussy & shit (though its good!). when your mind is right everything else will follow
fuck his best friend :) always makes me feel better
Ye_Yo829
11-20-2007, 02:21 PM
The only real way to actually get over someone is to find someone better.
:68:
It's not good to do the rebound thing, don't just jump into a new relationship
Chill and keep yourself busy so you don't have time to think about that person.
You need time to cleanse
Sh1nob1
11-22-2007, 01:24 AM
Try to look at it as more time for self-reflection and growth. As Ye_Yo829 stated previously I wouldn't suggest getting involved in a new relationship right after the end of a previous one. I can't say that the new relationship will fail but, I will say that the odds are not in your favor. Dating is encouraged but, take more time to review your priorities in life. You'll find that afterwards your perspective on life and relationship may have become more clear.
Bo$$ology
11-23-2007, 09:26 AM
You're suppose to grieve for a minute, but damn playa, don't stay there too long cause no one is worth taking yourself down like that, and please leave the depressing songs alone. leave the Brian McKnight and the Keith Sweat alone. I always say ' The next one is always better than the last one" so keep ya head up and your game up and get money.
lovejones
03-30-2008, 10:44 PM
:58:Of course it takes time and, go and find someone that you really click with like that and who has really good sex!!! you'll be over it! sounds harsh but it works
DaReal
04-01-2008, 01:29 AM
The theory is you multiply the time you were with the girl by 2, and that is how long it will take to get over her. So if you were DEEP with a girl for two years, you are f'd for 4.
daiman
04-03-2008, 06:31 PM
just get fucked up till the point you forget about it....
Miss_Toni
04-03-2008, 09:49 PM
According to EducatedFool's list, I'm in stages 1, 2, 3, and 4. This shit is not the business.
SenBlack(UVP)
04-04-2008, 12:18 AM
The theory is you multiply the time you were with the girl by 2, and that is how long it will take to get over her. So if you were DEEP with a girl for two years, you are f'd for 4.Thats only for weak ass dudes.
RrebelRrabbi
04-04-2008, 12:35 AM
realize that it is over for a reason, however dumb the reason may be. Know that if it's meant to be ita be. Stay busy and occupied, cuz there's no tricks or secrets to make it go faster, jus live and learn
Endless
04-04-2008, 09:22 AM
According to EducatedFool's list, I'm in stages 1, 2, 3, and 4. This shit is not the business.
awwww yall broke up?
told yall love is evil
yall both are welcome to come to the darkside now
BlackBearWolph
04-04-2008, 10:11 PM
I'm living with the girl I broke up with five months ago. Its real hard for me because I don't hate her, neither one of us cheated. Its just we feel out of love. Sucks too. Time is the only true way to get over a broken heart.
Miss_Toni
04-05-2008, 11:20 PM
awwww yall broke up?
told yall love is evil
yall both are welcome to come to the darkside now
Lol, Love's not evil. Sometimes its just not as strong as u thought it was. But, I can say that this side isn't as dark as I thought it would be...
SenBlack(UVP)
04-06-2008, 12:05 AM
Lol, Love's not evil. Sometimes its just not as strong as u thought it was. But, I can say that this side isn't as dark as I thought it would be...Ha!
Miss_Toni
04-06-2008, 12:12 AM
Ha!
Ha what?
LoCo_LoC
04-06-2008, 03:26 AM
Sometimes its just not as strong as u thought it was.
http://91.121.71.200/gifs/2083.gif
Miss_Toni
04-06-2008, 03:44 AM
http://91.121.71.200/gifs/2083.gif
lmao
lexxxluther
04-06-2008, 09:17 AM
just get out
dont sit in the house and listen 2 sad songs
hang out with your friends and stay buzy
Endless
04-07-2008, 10:35 AM
Lol, Love's not evil. Sometimes its just not as strong as u thought it was. But, I can say that this side isn't as dark as I thought it would be...
jokes aside im sorry to hear that
i hate when anyone breaks up.....shit
daiman
04-13-2008, 08:54 PM
Lol, Love's not evil. Sometimes its just not as strong as u thought it was. But, I can say that this side isn't as dark as I thought it would be...
damn thats fucked up...shit was all good like a week ago
trickymoves
05-13-2008, 06:35 PM
Take your time to focus on rebuilding yourself, don't be fooled into thinking that fucking a bunch of women will help, You'll only end up treating those women bad. It's a slow process learn to deal with yourself emotionally ,be real about how you feel(the rhyme was unintentional).
:iagree:
BigJeloe
06-01-2008, 11:40 PM
The theory is you multiply the time you were with the girl by 2, and that is how long it will take to get over her. So if you were DEEP with a girl for two years, you are f'd for 4.
that's bullshit. I was with someone for 8 years...you sayin' it should take me 16 years to get over it? haha...not even 16 months bruh...
you have a life to live....and it's up to YOU to live it.
BigJeloe
06-01-2008, 11:42 PM
realize what part you played in the break up...and use that to make yourself better. ..for you and the next person you get with.
And whatever you do...don't fall into that trap thinking that you can't find love again. If you had a good person before there's no reason why you can't get someone just as good or better next time around.
righteousnova
06-02-2008, 01:34 AM
1: Take your time to find out where you are with it.
2: Find Someone better.
3: Keep a constant supply of new pussy.
majthomas
06-18-2008, 04:35 AM
time heals all wounds
until then, distraction works best.
I like that!!! Very good. And oh so true. I might go see one of my distractions when I get off from work at 5am...crazy thing is, SHE BE HAPPY t see me at that hour. if i were to go by my ex's at that hour, she'd probably call the cops and have a restraining order put on me...lol.
Distractions are SO MUCH better!! Until time has finished healig my heart...I'll just let my distractions do what SHE couldn't do...keep me happily occupied. :yay
majthomas
06-18-2008, 05:17 AM
Yall niggas sound like bitches that real I mean move the fuck on.
All the females in this world and yall talking about "OH IT HURTS" so what it's life move on.
Once I break up I won't be doing shit to keep from pondering bout her, I won't even be thinking about her like that.
I will think about her but no to the point where I need to find something to occupy my mind.
Sounds like you dont really LOVE when you have a girl. Are you in a relationship now? How long, and are you being faithful, and trynig to make it last forever. If no, then I REALLY don't thnk you can understand what people are talking abut up in here.
We ALL have FUCK buddies, but when we loose them, we don't worry about it, cause it was just a FUCK any how. When when you LOVE someone...I mean REALLY LOVE them, and would have put your NAME on that girl if yall had lasted, THEN....you will feel ALL the PAIN we are talking about up in this post.
Or, maybe you ARE as HARD as you claim to be. If you are....I must say, I am not invious of you. I would RATHER be the one who BLEEDS from the hurt caused by lost love, than to NEVER have experience that wonderful feeling at all. The PAIN we feel is what we tried avoid, but our weak nature as humans will ALWAYS bring us that pain, until the day we die (eiher physically or emotionally...doesn't really matter...they are BOTH DEATH anyway).
LOVE ON PEOPLE!!! There is NO greater feeling.
majthomas
06-18-2008, 05:21 AM
man up fuck all this therapy shit move the fuck on,go work on your body( hit the local gym)work on the physical parts(anything that can help you look and feel better)start saving money(new clothes,new shoes,nice apartment,clean ride)last but not least let people see you out and about(don't let this break up look like it broke you down)start living again bitch,i had to tell my nephew this same shit the other day.
REAL TALK!!
majthomas
06-18-2008, 05:37 AM
awwww yall broke up?
told yall love is evil
yall both are welcome to come to the darkside now
LOL... Now THAT'S funny!! Cool, but funny!!
yea just lost the love of my life feeling kinda empty but i try to get over it cant dwell on the past all i can say is take your mind off them getting some one else just covers the pain but ill come back to haunt you
BigJeloe
06-28-2008, 01:10 AM
Sounds like you dont really LOVE when you have a girl. Are you in a relationship now? How long, and are you being faithful, and trynig to make it last forever. If no, then I REALLY don't thnk you can understand what people are talking abut up in here.
We ALL have FUCK buddies, but when we loose them, we don't worry about it, cause it was just a FUCK any how. When when you LOVE someone...I mean REALLY LOVE them, and would have put your NAME on that girl if yall had lasted, THEN....you will feel ALL the PAIN we are talking about up in this post.
Or, maybe you ARE as HARD as you claim to be. If you are....I must say, I am not invious of you. I would RATHER be the one who BLEEDS from the hurt caused by lost love, than to NEVER have experience that wonderful feeling at all. The PAIN we feel is what we tried avoid, but our weak nature as humans will ALWAYS bring us that pain, until the day we die (eiher physically or emotionally...doesn't really matter...they are BOTH DEATH anyway).
LOVE ON PEOPLE!!! There is NO greater feeling.
dude is prolly only a couple few years outta high school...he ain't been through it yet
sirsexalot
08-02-2008, 02:57 AM
find sumting 2 do take ur mind off di person dats di only way
Glenlivet
08-04-2008, 04:24 PM
I think you throw yourself into hobbies hang with friends, date, do things you've always wanted to do. Don't sit around sad and wondering why, pick yourself up and just keep on going. That works for me.
complexbrother
08-08-2008, 05:31 PM
get into a hobby. you know what they say, idle hands and all that.
hugrad95
12-08-2009, 12:24 AM
Go to the gym...and work it out.
Tae-Tae
12-09-2009, 11:33 AM
It's a hard situation regardless of how we go about it.
I think we just gotta mix all of the above till eventually you aint thinkin bout that person all the time no more.
It's like it never goes away completely tho. Caint press delete about it
It's hard as fuck, I just got dumped, saw the writing on the wall but ignored it...
Shit hurts like crazy because I know I was a simp playing captain sava...
She said she wanted to commit but jumped right back into her old web attention whoring ways as soon as we broke up... She will never be more then a jump of for most niggas and I was a fool to try and make her respectable.
Damn the sex was bomb, now all I can think about is all them other niggas back on the blocks...
What hurts the most is that she so easily tossed out our relationship and my love to be as she says "free" Free to be a fuckin' Whore Bitch!....
Sorry I'm still a little bitter....
Note to all you brothas: Keep you woman off myspace, facebook and twitter, fuck text messaging, if the niggas can't call they don't need to communicate, meet and get to know all her friends, don't trust a secretive bitch...
Cause in the end they will creep if the opportunity allows... caught the bitch in a straight lie once I snagged her cell and read her texts to all the niggas from her past setting up meetings!
Shit gets deeper but I don't wanna write a book... just keep your eyes openand your game tight...
And put a keylogger on her computer.... I'd rather know and be safe then not know and get sick, hurt or used...
These new bitches aint shit, and the old heard got to much baggage and drama...
Fuck love and relationships, think I'll go back to bangin' foreign chicks on holiday...
I LOVE ME SOME ME!
12-11-2009, 06:35 PM
Get somebody else.
saekki_keyongi
02-15-2010, 10:15 PM
My Pillow i cry into keeps me warm on cold sad nights. i cry an cry until i cant then i get upset but take the anger out an do something like running walk my dogs all over my neighborhood. gotta take your mind of of things.
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altho i get over relationships quickly ...so im not a good one to go by
sonnythreeguns1
04-14-2010, 10:11 PM
Like several others said, find someone new.
JBeezy88
04-30-2010, 09:55 PM
find ya self most importantly...
me myself, i turn't to music..started writin, rappin, venting..it eased my mind
i smoked an l every now n then, but it just kinda make it worse honestly....cuz it had my mind running....
it was hard as fuck, took me a couple good months manye...but i stayed focus, n keep it movin
sosadagr8
05-01-2010, 05:55 AM
this thread needs to be sticky
theres no other thread like it
bush113
05-14-2010, 06:45 PM
Time is the best thing because if you get with a rebound person you are bound to make mistakes in judgment because you are in emotional term oil. also your bound to take out your negative energy on a potentially good person. Learn from past mistakes and build yourself up.
Randomly sleeping around maybe a bad idea too because that has it's problems too..Take time to refine yourself and find someone equally as good or better and get your confidence back.
dancer86
05-15-2010, 01:21 PM
just think how the nex one will have all those qualities you liked in the last one plus more.
Always turns out to be true for me!
d6579
05-18-2010, 02:40 AM
look at buck nekkid hoes on the internet lol......naw but keep in mind how the last girl was & act accordingly - don't make it a deja vu scenario, meaning do better like most already been sayin
lifeofachampion
05-25-2010, 02:24 AM
The best thing you can do is go & buy The Ellite Way by Tariq Nasheed & listen to his Podcasts at macklessons.com.This will equip you with lethal game & tools to get over the break up.
lifeofachampion
06-30-2010, 09:21 PM
Create options for yourself by makeing sure you look extra fly everyday, read a new book, take on some exersise program & go to macklessons.com buy the books & listen to the podcasts &you'll be good to go....:ko::ko::ko:
krisox
07-02-2010, 07:23 AM
thanks
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RealAzzNigga
07-06-2010, 01:56 AM
Just move on
cali dude
07-13-2010, 08:05 PM
Just move on
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